Valentine’s Day Sex

I knew that title would get your attention!  If there is one thing I have learned in my 36 years of life it is that just about every husband will be expecting sex on Valentine’s Day. Am I wrong?

I am not going to actually talk about sex in this post, because, hey, this is a book blog (with some random posts like this one) and not a sex blog. I am a Christian, so I am going to direct you to two very awesome Christian blogs that do in fact talk about sex. They talk about how to make it hotter and better and that God is okay with married couples spicing it up. These two blogs are very fun but also tackle some difficult topics. They are run anonymously which allows them to lay it all out there and keep it real. So, please, go check them out and find out if you can spice up your sex life tonight!

Hot, Holy, and Humorous

“J” is the person that runs Hot, Holy and Humorous. She describes herself as “I am a Christian, a wife, a mom, a writer, and a work in progress. I write biblically and bluntly, as if you are all my close girlfriends, about how sex in a Christian marriage can be HOT, HOLY & HUMOROUS!”

“J” not only has awesome posts of her own, but she brings in guest bloggers that are great. She is very thorough in her research and discusses topics from many different angles. She appears to be a strong Christian but also knows how the secular world works and does a great job of discussing things that most people would not want to talk about. I never feel that she is judgmental in any of her posts and I wish I had a local friend like her to talk about those intimate things. You can follow her on Facebook, Twitter, and her Blog!

Married Spice

Married Spice is run by a married couple who refer to themselves as Chip and Cherry Pepper. They describe themselves on their blog: “Who says married sex is bland? We are here to help you kick it up a notch! Spicy talk, sweet memories, and sacred beliefs shared here. We are unconventional. We are real. We like it funny. We like it hot. 17 years, a few kids, a love for Jesus and crazy fun love life is our strength  We are not sexperts or therapists. We just love sharing helpful tips, tricks and encouragement for married couples.”

They are not frequent bloggers but are famous on Twitter. They tweet about married life which includes fun banter between the two, they have polls, and sometimes they just tweet about fun things they have learned in their marriage. They also are open to people asking questions and have an email address on their blog where you can send questions. Like “J” above, they are not judgmental at all and are great to interact with. You can follow them on Facebook, Twitter, or their Blog!

I hope you and your spouse find a way to spice things up tonight and have a very Happy Valentine’s Day!


2 thoughts on “Valentine’s Day Sex

  1. Well, I think you know how I feel about this topic, Amy. Sex is a gift from God. Only one animal in the animal kingdom, other than humans, that I know of has sex for fun…the dolphin. And hey, they are some of the happiest animals out there.

    People have turned sex into something ugly, when it is beautiful. I’ve been married twenty-three years, and I’m here to tell you, hubby isn’t the only one who expects sex. One of the great secrets of being over forty that women don’t seem to share with other women, maybe why many female writers are over forty…they are now like the 17-y-o hormonal boy. LOL!

    Anyway, as we’ve discussed previously, books, movies, and TV seem to be okay with violence, but not sex. Personally, I think we have that reversed. And so, as a Christian, I will continue to take my readers to the precipice. No, I won’t talk about throbbing parts…I talk about the emotions. Because isn’t that what a book is supposed to do, allow you to feel the emotion. *Show* with emotion!

    Thanks for the blog post… is another one by the way. 🙂

  2. This is too funny. I’ll remember this tonight. I agree with Carmen about women authors over forty. 🙂 Also about TV being okay with violence and not sex.

    I hope you have a fabulous night!

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